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| 5 First Date Tips For Building Instant Attraction |
| Friday |
How do you handle yourself on the first date?
This is an important question which a lot of guys ask! They like a woman and want to make a great first impression, but they don't know how to act when they're on this first date.
Well if you're one of these guys, have no fear!
In this article, I'll reveal 5 simple first date tips that'll ensure you build attraction and make an incredible impression on her.
First Date Tip #1- Remove your worries and expectations
The biggest problem you'll face on your first date is worrying too much about being perfect. While you want to make a great impression, you shouldn't worry so much about what to say or how.
A simple solution is to not worry about the outcome of the date.
By relaxing and not working yourself up, you'll come across as confident. Just remember that if the date goes badly, the only thing you've wasted is some money and time.
First Date Tip #2- Limit your time during the date
Another mistake you could make is plan out an extravagant and fancy event for the first date.
The goal of the first date is to qualify each other for a future relationship. So at first, you're not sure if this woman will be somebody you want to be around for 2+ hours.
Instead of going for a fancy date, you should meet her for coffee or a few drinks. That way, you can have a quick exit strategy if it's not going well.
First Date Tip #3- Be in control of the date
Women love guys who are decisive and confident. By taking the initiative and planning out your first date, you'll show a positive quality to her. Furthermore, by controlling the date, you'll be able to choose an environment of your choosing.
First Date Tip #4- Flirt with your date
Now the first date isn't always about exit strategies and qualifying each other. Most of the time it's about having fun!
The secret to a great first date is building rapport and attraction.
When you're on your date, you should have fun and flirt with her. If she is not attracted to you, then it'll be hard to build anything. So it's important make sure your having fun and flirting with her.
First Date Tip #5- Know when you can break the rules
The previous four tips aren't carved in stone. There will be times when you should know to break them.
For instance if the date is going well and you think sex is a possibility, then you shouldn't worry about limiting your time. All you need to do is use these tips as a guideline and know when to break them.
By adhering to these 5 first date tips, you'll have a lot of fun and excitement with women. As a result, you'll find that it's easy to build attraction and rapport with each of these women.Labels: 5 First Date Tips For Building Instant Attraction |
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| Online Dating: The very first letter to your woman |
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Make your very first letter to your lady shine. This is your chance to make a new friend who could become an important part of your life. Remember that the very first impression about you will affect on your future communication and if this impression is capable of improvement this is not a good sign.
Follow our instructions and warning tips, based on many years of online dating experience and be sure that success will find you very soon. Instructions * STEP 1: Be friendly and polite. It's so important to show your respect to your lady by using friendly and polite words in your letter. Avoid nicknames and phrases like: "Hey baby" or "My hot girl" in your very first introductory letter, it's better to make a pleasant compliment for her instead. Don't worry if you really like using these words you can do it a bit later. Just wait till lady opened up for you.
* STEP 2: Keep your tone upbeat. Your letter should reflect your great mood and optimism. Never share your problems, difficulties and complaints in your first letter this will scare her away. Show her how happy and cheerful you are. Understand that negativity is a major turnoff in your introduction letter. In the contrary, being positive is like a magnet. Here's how one person actually began his letter: "To be quite honest, I have been putting this off as long as possible. I have friends who use dating web sites and have had some terrible dates." This begs to ask, "What are you doing here?" Now contrast that to this introductory letter: "I've heard online dating is a great way to meet awesome people and that's why I want to meet you." Which one of these letter intros is more attractive? The one who wants to date "losers" or the one that wants to date "winners"? Psychologically everyone wants to be a winner. Therefore in your first letter, avoid anything negative. Be positive.
* STEP 3: Share information about yourself that you think others will find interesting. Check her profile, find out about her hobbies and interests. Remember that it's so great if she finds out that you two have so much in common.
* STEP 4: Tell the person who you are and what you are about. Avoid speaking about your disadvantages in the very first letter. In the contrary tell her how great and wonderful you are, but it's important to know where to stop, otherwise your story will turn into boasting and this won't have any positive results. Here are some phrases that will help you to describe you in a best way:
1 My best friend describes me as... 2 I'm happiest when I'm... 3 Here's what you'd find if you looked around my place... 4 A great day in my life would include... 5 The last great book I read was... 6 The last great movie I saw in a cinema was... 7 My favorite season is... 8 The color I wear most is... 9 If you asked me what I'm wearing, I'd say... 10 My favorite on-screen love scene is... 11 The music that moves me most is... 12 Today in my car I was listening to... 13 Last Saturday night I... 14 The last vacation I went on was... 15 The most adventurous thing I've ever done was... 16 I'm happiest when I'm with someone who... * STEP 5: Include information about your age, education and career. In accordance with statistics these three things are the most important to learn about for 80 % of ladies.
* STEP 6: Mention your favorite hobbies, pets, children or anything else that might unearth a shared interest with in your new friend.
* STEP 7: Avoid talking about controversial topics. Not in a first letter. Discussions and debates can be really interesting thing to share in letters, but only when you feel that lady became closer to you and opened up.
* STEP 8: Take care not to overwhelm the reader with too much information. Revealing a little bit at a time will pique the reader's interest. Remember that there must be a little secret not only in a lady but in a man as well. You'll reach great results if you make your lady wait for the next chapter of our story impatiently.
* STEP 9: Ask her questions so she can respond. If you speak only about yourself in your letter this won't help you at all. Remember that it's so important to have a dialog instead of monologue.
* STEP 10: Let your personality show by your choice of words and the descriptions you use.
Tips & Warnings
* Remember not to share too much too soon. Wait until someone knows you before you air your family problems and secrets.
* Use careful judgment when deciding how much information to share with a stranger. Always be cautious when it comes to revealing personal information. Our agency would be glad to give you more detailed information about all above. This is the place to find a soul mate.Labels: Online Dating: The very first letter to your woman |
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| 5 Dating Lessons from 280 Failed Marriages |
| Tuesday |
The Family Love Teacher believes that sharing this missing knowledge will teach the Singles how to foresee and manage the root causes of marital failure. Here below are the 5 dating lessons learned from 280 failed marriages:
Chicago, IL (PRWEB) August 21, 2007 -- On a mission to make divorce and domestic violence plagues of the past, the Family Love Teacher is requesting every Single person to study these unique dating lessons from 280 failed marriages.
The Family Love Teacher believes that sharing this missing knowledge will persuade more people to learn how these 280 marriages failed, why they failed, and how Singles can use their unpleasant experiences to learn how to foresee and manage the root causes of marital failure:
This study revealed the existence of a clear path to a successful and lasting love relationship, and every Single person needs to invest quality time to learn how to unlock these consequential secrets in dating and relationship building. With this essential dating knowledge, there is no excuse for wasting time loving and marrying the wrong person and then divorcing later.
1. At the time of tying the knot, each of those 280 adults believed that their marriage was going to last forever, but that did not happen! They all learned this hard lesson; that being good and wanting to be successfully married is not enough on its own, because the success of your marriage truly depends on your husband or your wife. They proved that you cannot sustain a love relationship single handedly; it takes two to succeed. Advice to Singles: You must learn how to choose a lover who is right for you, and also finds you ideal for them, and the best time to learn is before making the costly marital mistakes.
2. They all rushed to fall in love, and failed to see the red flags that were right in their faces from the time they started dating. They confessed that they were emotionally attached, and hoped they would be able to change their former fiancée(s) habits after wedlock. They learned this hard lesson, that you cannot successfully change another person if that person is not willing to change on their own. They also learned that even with a prenup, it is not smart to force a mismatch, because it always leads to domestic violence and a future breakup.
3. They all regretted not knowing what they should have known in time, to make the right marital decisions. They were instead consumed by the excitement of the new relationship, the sweet gifts, the new places to visit, and planning their wedding, before truly knowing or evaluating the person they were committing their love to. They learned that regardless of your feelings, it is vital to learn how to control your love emotions and target your decisions towards meeting your long term needs.
4. They all confessed that it was a costly experience; and wished someone had taught them how to guard their hearts from the wrong person! They would not have followed the wrong way that wrecked their love relationships. But the other sad discovery was that, many of those whose hearts had been repeatedly bruised, had lost confidence and were afraid of trusting or loving anyone again.
5. They were all pained not by the divorce itself, but the fact that their divorce was preventable, had they learned how-to interpret the advance warning signs they saw during the pre-wedlock period. They learned that making choices unthinkingly; and then hoping for the best, is being reckless with life. Passionate singles need to invest time to learn how to foresee and manage these premarital risks and uncertainties. Loving is an important lifetime decision, and you have to know what you are doing every step of the way in choosing the right spouse who also finds you right to them.
Now the good news: The Family Love Teacher studied 1,064 successfully and unsuccessfully married adults, and developed a decision-making tool that helps Singles to visualize their marital future. This tool is helping more Singles to minimize the influence of guesswork in making this important decision. "This decision-making tool gives the Single person instant feedback to prevent a mismatch. More Singles are getting in total control and making the right decision the first time," says the Family Love Teacher.
He says that "This study revealed the existence of a clear path to a successful and lasting love relationship, and every Single person needs to invest quality time to learn how to unlock these consequential secrets in dating and relationship building. With this essential dating knowledge, there is no excuse for wasting time loving and marrying the wrong person and then divorcing later." He has recorded this prerequisite base knowledge and all the answers Single have always wanted to know on a on audio program titled "How to Choose Your True Lifetime Lover".
For those interested in reading, this invaluable dating and relationship knowledge is taught in a new workbook titled, 10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage; Self-Help Secrets for the Smart Lover", by the Family Love Teacher. Due to its exceptional value, the market place has priced this rare workbook at $200.00. However, it is cheaper online at $49.95.
The Family Love Teacher builds joyful families. He teaches about Lifetime Love, i.e., how to know it, how to find it, and how to keep it successfully. He is also the author of Success Mindsets for the Winning Couple.
More dating lessons, please go to Millionaire Cupid Dating tips.Labels: 5 Dating Lessons from 280 Failed Marriages |
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| One Man Takes On Big-Money Dating Sites In Unusual Way |
| Monday |
A new website specializing in online dating has thrown down the gauntlet to the big-named dating sites by offering everything they offer and more; except it's free.
Jason Sebik, the single - and handsome - sole creator and maintainer of wheresmystar, explains to us why he decided to dive into a well populated and overly exploited arena:
"I simply got sick of the big-named dating sites currently available. There's been no real innovation in years despite the tons of millions that's been made in this industry. They expect a client to pay $20 or more for 1 month of membership for precisely the same functionality that's been available since online dating sites started in the early 90's. That's just ridiculous. I always think, why isn't this free? Why is this so expensive? And what am I paying for anyway? In our times of more and more great free services arriving on the web, it just doesn't make sense. I know I can offer everything they offer, and even more, and do it for free. I'll even throw in some new never-before-seen innovations, like Sparks, self Personality Traits, and the Sparks Or Not game," says the one-man-show CEO of WheresMyStar.com.
But there already are many free dating sites out there, right?
"Sure, there's free dating sites out there. But, most of them are literal clones of each other. They either look horrible, have usability problems, or simply don't have the abundance of features and attributes of the big-named dating sites. And that's where my site draws the line," says Sebik
We asked him about the problems with the current major dating sites. Sebik says, "The problem of Fake Members and Spam/Unsolicited Messages are the biggest issues. I don't have the poor ethics, resources, or even the incentive to puppeteer fake members as do some pay-sites. And that's why this is still a big problem that users notice on other sites. With regards to Spam, on most all the dating sites out there currently, any paying member or otherwise can literally spam tons of people in a short period of time. I've heard too many people complain how they pay to join a site, and then hours later are overwhelmed with hundreds of emails. On my site I've introduced the Sparks system. This system not only eliminates the power of 'spamming members and unsolicited messages', but at the same time adds to the enjoyment of using the site! It's really pretty cool. We also have other business rules and mechanisms within our site which both protects the good members, and exposes the naughty ones. My site is all about saving time for my members, and I think everyone can appreciate that."
He also added, "The site currently enjoys a truly amazing >80% conversion rate from PPC ads. Despite the young age of the site, I think this shows that people agree with our goals and philosophy. Good exposure seems to be our only problem right now."
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Different people have different ideas of how soon people should meet up after becoming acquainted via online dating.
As a general rule, it’s women who usually tend to be a bit more cautious (for obvious reasons) but you may well find some men who prefer to take their time, as well as women who like to move faster.
Some dating sites are more likely to appeal to those who want to take their time (such as those sites that cater to those seeking serious relationships) while others will have a larger concentration of fast paced daters. So how do you decide on the bes time? Really, there are no set rules in the online dating world that dictate how soon you should meet up. As long as you follow the safety rules, you could technically arrange to meet up immediately. Most people, though, prefer at least a minimal level of online vetting before agreeing to meet up. After all, that’s why online dating sites are there - to help save you time and money by allowing you to get answers to the important questions without leaving your home. Unless there are limiting factors (such as distance, etc.) you should aim to meet up sooner rather than later, though, as there is only so much information the online dating world can provide without face to face interaction. If you have been speaking to someone for about a week online and on the phone, you should know whether you would like to arrange a meet up. If you have been speaking to someone for two weeks or more and are still uncertain, then either there is something about the person you are talking to that is making you uneasy and suspicious (in which case, follow your instincts and end your acquaintance) or you are generally suspicious of the online dating medium. When approaching the subject: - Consider your own comfort level: what do you want and need to know about someone before you know whether he or she is someone you want to see in person?
- Never be pressured into meeting up before you are ready: people should respect your limits online, as well as offline. If someone is trying to pressure you into meeting up before you are ready - keep away.
- Respect other people’s comfort level: some people like to move slower than others. If you want to meet up with someone and they are not ready, try to find out the cause, keep chatting and try not to come across too pushy. They are within their rights to go slowly, but you are also perfectly within your rights to move on if you think someone is wasting your time.
- Remember: it’s better to label yourself paranoid and give up on online dating than go on a date with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable. If you think you may be over-cautious but are still worried, arrange a daytime meeting somewhere public (which is a good idea anyway) and take a friend along (this advice is aimed at women who would bring a female friend. Women tend to react unfavourably when men bring a male surprise guest to anything but a double or group date
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| Online dating tip: Are you still wasting your time with ice breakers? |
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Most online dating sites offer some feature or other meant to make contacting people “easier”. The generic term for these is icebreakers and they are known on individual sites as winks, pokes, kisses, flirts, etc. These features are generally free to use, making them the preferred method of communication by people who have not yet decided whether they want to subscribe to a site. They are also favoured by people who want to contact as many people as possible without putting any actual effort into it. Is it worth it? You can probably guess from the title of this page that I think they are pretty much a waste of time. Here’s why:
Being a woman and having to occasionally walk down a street or two, I sometimes come across those lovely guys who think that women like to be wooed by the sound of wolf-whistles, animal noises (what’s with that?) and various cries of “hey sexy”. I don’t. In fact, I generally end up lecturing said guys and shaming them into running away. Those guys think women enjoy the attention but what they fail to understand is that if the guy hits on every woman he sees walking down the street, the attention he gives any particular woman is not really worth much. The guy is obviously desperate and would hit on anyone. Back to the icebreakers. We all know that it only takes a second to send an icebreaker. A man (or woman) could bombard hundreds of people with these in less time that it takes to boil a cup of tea. That man (or woman) could even do it without spending any money.
Hardly makes you feel special, does it? If you are a beautiful woman with an amazing picture in your profile or an attractive man with a well-written profile, you might get some responses doing this, but then again, you would probably be getting enough attention without sending any messages out at all. If you’re not a supermodel or a movie star and want people to give you the time of day, a better strategy is to start by giving them the time of day: sign up, pay your money (assuming you are not using a free dating site) and write a personal message. You’re far more likely to get a good response then. Labels: Online dating tip: Are you still wasting your time with ice breakers? |
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| Online dating more popular in UK than US? |
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A recent report has shown that 20% of British Internet users used dating sites in December last year compared to only 13% in America . The French, however, beat everyone, with 22% of their Internet users logging on for love.
December is traditionally a busy month on the sites, because the holiday season can make people feel pretty lonely. I wonder whether the figures would have been significantly different if the research had been done in a different month. Either way, if you account for the fact that not all Internet users are single, it emerges that online dating has now become pretty much standard in the UK. About time, too.Labels: Online dating more popular in UK than US? |
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