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Summer love can be fun but also stressful if you have a habit of sabatoging relationships. The pattern of crash and burn dating is hard to break because your subconscious mind tends to draw you to the same situations and people again and again. Here are some tips to make your summer romance last until the air grows chilly in the fall and hopefully transform into a long-lasting relationship.

 1. Do the opposite. If you are in a new relationship, do not automatically fall into the same patterns that did not work for you in the past. No matter how strong the pull, try to resist the common behaviors that drove a person away before and take a risk by acting against your fears. You may find that a new approach is both beneficial and freeing in keeping the other person interested.

2. Hold on Loosely. Remember that old song from the eighties? Think of holding a pen in your hand. If you grasp it too tightly your writing will look forced and too lose will make it sloppy. When you were just beginning to use the pencil, you had to find that sweet spot where you hand held it just right. Find that balance in your relationship. Do not force love or rebel against holding love at all. There is an energy when there is just a little bit of tension to keep both parties interested that keeps the fire burning between the two of you.

3. Keep your current life. Don't blow off your friends to completely dive into your new relationship. When someone new arrives, your social calendar does change. Your true friends can help you keep your feelings in check because they truly care about you. Your partner will find it attractive that you have another life besides what he or she offers you. Nothing puts more pressure on a relationship than the other person revolving their whole life around you when they do not even know you yet.

4. Take it slow. If you are meant to be together, there is a whole lifetime to spend together. So many relationships end too soon because one or both people try to squeeze the evolution of an entire relationship in one week. Don't jump in with both feet because you are only seeing the surface of the other person. Be patient and allow the romance to take its natural course.

5. Play Big. Sometimes when you really want a relationship and someone sails into your life, you immediately put them on a pedastal as the savior to your lonely existence. By doing this, you automatically put them above you and place yourself in a mental state of trying to earn their love. When you play small, the other person subconsciously feels your inferiority and then gets turned off. They won't be able to put their finger on it, but all they want to do is get away from you. If you come from a place of "I am the prize," the other person will feel like they are the lucky ones and treat you like a prince or princess. You will get the love you really deserve.

 

 

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I saw an interesting article on CNN today entitled "The downside of online dating".  In it, the writer discusses all the ways that online dating brings out the darker side of people.

For example:

• People will veto potential dates for very shallow reasons.  You wanted a guy who was over 6 feet and this one is perfect, but  5'10".  VETO!
• Some folks want instant gratification - WHAM! ROMANCE! - and if they don't get it, they disappear into the online mist, never to emerge again.
• Stalking an ex online is becoming more and more commonplace, including stalking their online dating profile.

What about you?  Does online dating bring out your nasty, mean, picky side?  Or are you willing to give people a chance online? As to me, I had a lucky dating experiences through the millionaire dating and wealthy men dating club wealthychats.com. He is a real millionaire! I can't never imagine that without online dating.

 

It's summer and for many lovely ladies, it is prime dating season! However, given the current economic recession, more people are staying in—and that has gotten the online dating industry booming! Read up on some reasons why more people may be turning to finding love online, as well as four free websites (i.e. no membership fee) to check out!

Why online dating is thriving

People have more time to look for love. Whether a person has been laid off or has cut down on post-work happy hours, more time is being spent at home nowadays, with extra available to actively look for "the One".It's less costly than going out. The dating scene can sometimes be a disappointing endeavour—and an expensive one to boot! The amount of money spent on drinks, food, and cab fare on a weekly basis can be overwhelming. With online dating, you can meet people for a relatively low cost (or free, as you'll see below) and make an informed decision before going out to invest your time—and money—on someone.There is a need to commiserate with someone. In these doom-and-gloom times, men and women are looking for someone to share and discuss hardships with. Conveying one's fears and concerns to a loving ear—or even having a distraction from work and money woes—may make life just a bit easier.People want to have someone to share expenses with. This is more of a long-term goal and maybe not what some people will outwardly admit to, but having someone to split the rent and bills with down the line sounds rather appealing—especially during these tough economic times.

FREE dating sites to check out

Plentyoffish.com This free dating site is a breath of fresh air from other sites that allow free membership but require payment to actually communicate with people. You can freely send messages to guys whose profiles you find interesting, shop around for guys in your area, attend social events run in your city by other members, and even block specific groups of users from messaging you. (Sorry, smokers living in the U.S. over the age of 40!)

WealthyChats.com This 100% free-to-join dating site launched by match.com has an interesting concept: wanting its users to connect with honest and respectful singles. The site relies on its community to share RealRatings of other users they've gone on dates with, to show whether they were genuine in their profiles. This will certainly filter out fraudsters and dishonest singles, keeping the dating environment safe and sincere.

Twitter The rising social networking site's intent was never to become an online dating destination, but it's pretty easy to find users in your area and begin tweeting with them. We have to admit, flirting in 140 characters or less has its quirky charms!

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