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Two top New York matchmakers share on finding love with successful singles in the New Year!

When people talk about millionaires, many may think about the lavish lifestyle, luxurious vacations and designer clothes. But a happy and long lasting relationship requires more than money.

So how do millionaires make the most important decisions in their personal lives? Lots of successful and wealthy singles use matchmaking services.

New York was recently named the best city for singles, and we know two top New York matchmakers who provide some great -- often surprising, but helpful -- tips on how to snag a rich one.

We sit down for a Q&A with both of them.

Siggy Flicker, MQI

Lisa Clampitt, VIP Life Siggy Flicker is the head matchmaker for Model Quality Introductions in the New York tri-state area with more than a decade of matchmaking experience. Lisa Clampitt is the president of VIP Life and co-founder of the Matchmaking Institute, a book author and a professional matchmaker since 1999. 

NBC New York: Who are your millionaire clients? Why do they use a matchmaking service?

Flicker: Most of our male clients are between the ages of 35-60, have graduated from Ivy League Schools and have mastered their professions. We have clients that range from celebrities, CEOs, Doctors, Dentists, Attorneys and Inventors. What these men have is success and brains. What they don't have is TIME to find their partner.  Just like most people including myself, I go to professionals to have my hair done, my nails, my facials and so on.  The male clients hire me to weed out the garbage and find them a compatible match. Most people outsource everything else in their lives to experts, so why leave the most important part of your personal life to chance?

Clampitt: VIP Life male clients tend to range from late 20’s to mid 50’s, with varied occupations including CEOs, entrepreneurs, real estate developers, finance professionals, entertainment executives, doctors, lawyers, among others. Clients are often very busy and are ready to outsource their love life. Male clients tend to want it all, beauty, brains and a heart of gold.  However, sometimes the skills that make a man successful in business, such as being the aggressive top dog that leads all the meetings and demands attention, are less impressive on the dating scene.  A balanced conversation, curiosity about others, humor, flirtation and confidence with a touch of vulnerability are all key qualities in successful dating.

NBC New York: What are they looking for?

Flicker: Attractive, fun, polished, intelligent, classy ladies who posses “THE WHOLE PACKAGE” - beauty, brains and a body. Some men are searching for an athletic partner, or one who can travel, or a partner that has attended or has graduated from an Ivy League school. Some of our male clients have gone as far as to request a partner based on ethnicity from Asian, Latin, and American, etc.  Some of our female clients have requests such as height, age or ethnicity, and just recently I have had a female client request a male partner who plays a musical instrument.

Clampitt: Men are visual creatures to begin with and when a man has it all, his visual expectations can become even more particular.  But these days, looks alone don't cut it.  Men are looking for it all; looks, style, personality, intellectual compatibility, good nature and in the end; LOVE.  VIP Life works with the most discerning clients who are not willing to settle.

NBC New York: What are some tips on dating and keeping a millionaire?

Flicker: My advice to dating a millionaire is not to be intimidated by the word “millionaire”. Remember that if one has been chosen by me and I think you are worthy then you must be. Be truthful, Be sincere, be cool, calm and collected and most importantly, have fun and be yourself. Act like a lady and keep conversations on the first few dates light. Don't talk about failed past relationships or financial problems or politics. Remember that if it was meant to be than it is going to be.  The easy part to my job and to all that are in search of love is to remember that chemistry comes from the man above. You can't buy it. You can't create it. It just happens.  It is important never to give up and to continue to go out and date and date until you find your special someone and remember that life isn't supposed to be easy and where there is a will there is a way. Stay positive. Stay focused and enjoy the journey.

Clampitt: One of the biggest requests VIP Life gets from its male clients is that they want a sweet and genuine woman who is not angry or jaded.  Key tips on finding and keeping a millionaire are to be open, approachable, loving, fun, happy, flirtatious, curious, and light hearted especially in the beginning.  Once in a relationship, don't forget the beginning tips and never take the relationship for granted. Continue to have fun, feel sexy and remain loving. Love and business are two completely different skill sets.  A common misconception is that a millionaire has all the answers and knows exactly what he wants.  That is not always the case. We all have a desire to love and be loved and the path to a long-term healthy relationship is not always the obvious road.

NBC New York: Who are your female clients? What are the chances for an average looking gal to date a millionaire?

Flicker: Age 20-50. The chances are great. What is average for one guy could be spectacular to another.

Clampitt: From early 20’s to mid 40’s. They are beautiful and sophisticated women interested in having a long-term relationship with dynamic and attractive men that have proven their success within the business community, and these men want to meet women of exceptional beauty, grace and substantive intellect.

Beauty is to the successful man as money is to the attractive woman.  That being said, the more important question is why is marrying a millionaire so important? The less boundaries and rules you put on the game of life and love the more the world will open up with limitless possibilities.

NBC New York: What are your fees?

Flicker: Men pay $20,000 and up a year. The broad range is set based on one location or multiple locations throughout the county.  The women, if accepted pay nothing. We have full time recruiters working throughout the tri-state area searching for women that fit a certain criteria that MQI has established. After I interview the potential women, I use my gut instincts and decide whether or not that she fits the MQI criteria.

Clampitt: Fees start at $12,500 and up for men and membership is free for exceptional women who qualify to enter the database.

A Bakersfield woman saying she was scammed out of $15,000 by someone she met on a Christian dating website. She reported the case to the Bakersfield Police Department, but detectives say scams like this often go unsolved because online identities are usually fake.

Debby Abel says she is humiliated she fell for the internet scam, but that didn't stop her from helping others learn from her mistake. Abel fell in love with a man claiming to be Larry Felix Mark on the Christian dating website www.bigchurch.com. After two months of phone calls and emails, Abel believed she found her soul mate.

"I have never in my life connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually with someone like this person," Abel explained.

So when Mark said he needed $15,429 for a business investment in Nigeria, Africa, Abel wired the money through Western Union. Mark told Abel he would pay her back in February and said some of the money would cover the plane ticket to see her in Bakersfield just weeks before Christmas.

"He was going to meet my family at a special family dinner that we had planned," Abel explained "We were going to see what reality was like. you can't make any decisions about a relationship until you meet somebody in person."

However, the day of his flight, Abel got a surprising phone call from Mark asking for more money.

"He was asking for money again and then I realized this guy--this is a total scam," Abel said.

Abel was married for 25 years, and says it's been hard trying find another man with her interests, so she turned to websites like www.bigchurch.com and www.eharmony.com. Detective Todd Brown from the Bakersfield Police Department says scams can occur on any website, so people should be cautious when giving money online or over the phone.

"If you're going to give money to somebody, do it in a contract," Detective Brown said. "If you just send money to somebody out of the goodness of your heart, there's no civil contract you can take to court if we're able to find that person."

Detective Brown says the man or group of people who have Abel's money could already be talking to others, using a different name, picture and story. Brown says the best resource to report internet scam artists is a government website coordinated through the FBI: ic3.gov

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You're too smart to get drawn into one of those bogus lotteries or online dating scams designed to part you from your money, right?

A Berks County woman who contacted us had felt likewise, but she got conned nonetheless, and now wants to warn others.

A Nigerian scammer captivated the woman through online chats, eventually convincing her to send him $500. She was ready to transfer more money before discovering his name and photos on a romance scam Web site, and realized she'd been duped.

Another Berks woman recently sent $250 to a caller who claimed she would then receive $2.75 million from a lottery she wasn't even sure she'd entered.

"I knew it seemed too good to be true, and that you shouldn't have to pay to receive a prize, but they were very convincing," she said. So the woman, who is on a very fixed income, gave away what amounted to her rent payment.

There is no doubt that these scammers are skilled, so consumers need to stay alert.

More tip on avoiding dating scam: Dating Guide 101

A COMPANY and a businessman have been hit with penalties totalling $6.5 million over a mobile phone dating scam, in a joint case that has now netted more than $22 million in fines.

Scott Mark Moles and Jobspy Pty Ltd were penalised $2.5 million and $4 million respectively for contravening the Spam Act with unsolicited SMS messages that "preyed" on lonely hearts across the country.

One victim of the scam bought chocolate and flowers, hired a hotel room and waited at the airport for a date that never arrived.

Moles and Jobspy worked with companies Mobilegate Ltd and Winning Bid Pty Ltd, which were penalised $8.5 million in October as part of the same court action instigated by the Australian Communications and Media Authority (ACMA).

Former Winning Bid director Simon Anthony Owen, current Mobilegate director Tarek Andreas Salcedo and Winning Bid employee Glenn Christopher Maughan have also previously been penalised a total of $7.25 million in the same case.

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Actress Hayden Panettiere has fuelled rumours of dating Entourage star Kevin Connolly.

The 20-year-old actress - who has previously dated her Heroes co-star Milo Ventimiglia and British TV presenter Steve Jones, was seen holding hands and enjoying an intimate conversation with Connelly at the HBO Emmy Awards.

"They were there to hang out together and stayed for hours until well after midnight,” Contactmusic quoted a source as telling gossip blogger Perez Hilton.

“Kevin only left Hayden's side towards the end of the night when he wanted to chat with someone at another table," the source added.

Panettiere was recently linked to millionaire Harry Morton, after the two were seen holding hands with just three weeks ago. "He still thought he was dating her last week and told friends all about her. Harry was bragging about getting her to do anything he wants," the source added.

 

Ever wonder why the man you're dating and having an amazing time with doesn't call you very often?

Or worse... stops calling altogether?

If you've ever had this happen to you with a man, then you know how FRUSTRATING it can be when a man just suddenly stops calling for what seems like no good reason...

And you've spent more time than you'd like to admit wondering what happened and what YOU might have done wrong.

Most women in this situation fall into a kind of trap that seems to work against them...

Instead of recognizing that the man not calling is an important signal in of itself, they become obsessed with wanting to know what he's thinking and WHY he's acting this way.

But most women also know on an intuitive level that coming out and actually asking a man why he's acting this way wouldn't bring about anything good.

And guess what?

Their intuition is right.

With most men in this situation, if you want to connect with a man and grow closer, then the answer is NOT to try and get him to talk about his thoughts and feelings.

It's time you learned what it really means if a man isn't calling... and what to do about it to quickly "turn the tables" in your favor so that he's the one calling and asking you out.

I'll share this with you, but first I want you to read this email I got recently from a reader about this exact kind of situation.

Know Who You're Seeing

Ascertain the kind of man you’re dealing with as soon as possible. This needs to be done tactfully. Ask questions to “authenticate him” and to find out who he is. A man should be willing to tell you what he does for a living and who he works for. If he says he’s “in business for himself”, ask what the name of his company is and ask what they do. (Women may wish to be more circumspect about where they work until they feel good about a guy which might take fifteen minutes or two or three dates. You probably do not want the guy showing up unannounced at work.) Ask where he lives.

If you feel a man is being very coy, I wouldn’t see him again. Most men have little to fear from women and should be open with you. Not being open may signal that he doesn’t do what he says, doesn’t want to tell you where he works or lives or is a man who doesn’t want to be identified. Having a man tell you “I work on Wall Street” doesn’t tell you very much. He may also be married, masquerading as single. Learn enough about a guy so that he could be “checkable”, even if you do not do it. Of course, if you know somebody who works at his company or lives in his area, tactfully ask about him, or have someone else help. You might get a good report, which can be encouraging, or you might learn something that will cause you to cross him off the list. “Men of mystery” may sound fine in movies and in books, but in the real world, know who you are dealing with as best as you can.

Personal Safety

If you exercise caution and prudence about who you go out with, and the situations you are in, most of the time the men you date will be gentlemen and personal safety will not be a dating issue. If you feel that a man's behavior is improper, say so. If he tries anything that is not welcome, be very firm in saying no. If he persists, tell him that "No means no. I expect to be treated like a lady." Never go anywhere isolated with someone you do not know well.

Watch your drink if you need to leave the bar or table. Some men have been known to slip drugs into them. If there is only a little of your drink left, finish it before you get up. Be careful how much you drink. It can affect how you act and respond.

Hopefully, you will never have to resort to the use of personal protection devices on a date, or any other time, but it is something you should consider. One safety device all women should have is a cell phone. Leave the phone on when you are out. Many of them are already programmed, or can be programmed, that when you push and hold on the "9", or other programmed key, it will automatically dial "911". Other personal protection products include pepper sprays and high decibel alarms. The products are available from many sources,including the link shown below. Check with a police officer or attorney in your community to ascertain what the law is with respect to the use of personal protection devices. It is against the law to take pepper sprays on an aircraft. Any products designed to further ensure your safety are ones you should take the time to consider.

There is also a digital pedometer/alarm which measures distance and calories burned which has a pull cord which when activated produces a loud panic alarm. Stay fit and safer at the same time. This product was mentioned in "Health Magazine" for women. It struck me as a very sensible, and additionally useful, safety device.

There are also a number of personal safety videos for women, self defense courses and other manners of protection you may wish to consider.

Always wear your seat belt and lock your car doors. Both will offer you greater protection in an accident. I was hit by a hit and run driver. My car was totalled when I lost control and went into a concrete median. If I hadn't had my seat belt on, I would not be writing this now. Be safety conscious.

I mention this as a matter of general safety, not specifically relating to dating. While there is no perfect advice on this point, a video developed by a former City of Chicago police officer recommended that if you ever are threatened by someone with a weapon ordering you to come with him, it is better to make your stand right there at "Location #1". Run and scream "Fire!", not "Help!" which people are more likely to ignore. If you are grabbed, use pepper spray, a personal alarm, gouge eyes, scream "Fire", bite, kick or do whatever you have to do. It is no time to be "a lady". The location an assailant would take a victim to, "Location #2", is only going to be more isolated and therefore more dangerous. I've mentioned these things not to unduly alarm you, but so you will think safety, be forewarned and better prepared.

Never walk in dark areas or stay in buildings where you are alone. Being "street smart" involves staying out of harm's way.

Always make sure that there is at least one person who knows that you are going on a date and when and where you are supposed to meet and what time you expect to be back. If you feel it is a situation where you don't want anyone else to know, write information out and leave it in your home or apartment in plain enough view for someone who might later need to look for it. If you are going out and a guy is picking you up in his car initially, or takes you out in it later in the evening, when you go to the lady's room or are someplace private, leave the car's license number, where you are and your date's name on an answering device at home or at work. You should always have your own cell phone with you, and again never go anyplace lonely with anyone you don't know well. As an additional precaution, if you know anyone in law enforcement, show them what I have written and ask for their advice about anything else that they, in their professional experience, feel that you should do to protect yourself.

 

Jealousy is often a sign that the man cares for a woman. He cherishes her and wants to protect her, that's why he becomes jealous of a few things and a few people. But what happens when those "few" things and people get more and more? That's the time that jealousy is not productive anymore.

As the woman in the relationship, you need to know some of the concrete signs that you can watch out for to determine if your millionaire match is not the "gentleman" he is setting out to be:

1. Too much determination to spend more and more time with you. This is not a bad thing, in itself. I mean, who wouldn't want to spend their time with a great woman like you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. He insists on chatting with you right after work, like if your work stops at 5, he'll be at the chatroom or email you at the exact dot. He'll ask you why you were late and who you were with, then at what time did you exactly get out of work, and how much time you spent on travel. In short, he's monitoring out your social activities. By making sure that you know he's waiting will pressure you to go back home ASAP and go online with him.

2. Too much interest with your social life. He would insist on knowing each and everyone of your friends and family members. If he sees you chatting with someone you did not introduce to him, or catches you talking with someone else, then he's get into irrational anger and demand that you tell him who you were chatting or talking to. Why does he do this? To put it simply, he's worried that you'll dump him for that "guy" on the phone or chatroom. Again, he doesn't think that he deserves to be loved, so he would always wonder why you would love him and he will be constantly afraid that you'll leave him for a better man. He would also say how each friend is a bad influence to you, and you'd do better to dump them and spend more time with him.

3. Too much involvement with what you wear. Admit it, as women, we love to make a fashion statement. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we're only meeting someone through the web cam. This is where you can usually find out first if he's possessive and/ or jealous. How? He will try to influence you and the way you dress. He will insist that you change into something else if he sees you wearing a particular set of clothes. He will insist that you can't wear certain shorts, skirts, and your jeans, and will insist that you let him know all of the outfits that you will wear. If this happens, then tell your guy gently, that you are comfortable with your clothes and you will wear what you want and he'll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he's the one who's lucky that he has you.

It is always great for women to feel loved and wanted, and a little bit of jealous actions will be an indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.

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Happy news: I've bought a flat. Still haven't moved in, or exchanged contracts, and I'm slightly dreading the hassle of home-ownership again: the council tax bills, the blown fuses, the demands from next door that Céline Dion is turned down. But you can't live like a student for ever and basically I'm pleased.

In fact, so surprisingly painless has the process been that I have found myself wishing that relationships were more like property. Wouldn't it be great, for instance, if potential partners came with the equivalent of a home information pack, outlining character flaws, and maybe their carbon footprint? Or if you could get surveys done on romantic prospects to get an idea of the trouble that may lie ahead? Or if you could negotiate over fixtures and fittings, have minor imperfections fixed by a Polish builder, rent them out if you get bored, etc?

And wouldn't it be fabulous if dating was more like buying a house? Indeed, it strikes me that what the eight million British singles really need is online "housedating": a website that, instead of relying on personal statements, photos and information about star signs, allowed people to find partners by exchanging information on how and where they live.

A house, in contrast, reveals almost everything that you need to know about someone. Anyone with a granite sideboard, for instance, is clearly a fashion victim. Anyone with no book shelves has no soul. Degree certificate hung in study: working class. Degree certificate in loo: middle class. Renting: commitment issues. Alphabetised CD collection: anal. Shoe rack: uptight. Corner sofa: pretentious. Spider plants: humourless. Desolate garden: self-absorbed, unnurturing, workaholic. Jacuzzi: sleazy. Cellar: kinky. Tennis court: Tory MP. Landscaped garden: Labour MP. Home cinema system: Shahid Malik. Tudor effects: John Prescott. And so on.

As Jane Austen understood and the producers of Through The Keyhole and Grand Designs realise, houses betray even subliminal truths about individuals. I've just been discussing my new flat with a posh friend, informing her that I was planning to install a plasma screen TV above the mantelpiece, having forgotten that the middle classes have a thing about hiding their TVs, and I doubt that she would have been more horrified if I'd announced that I was installing a turbo barbecue in the bathroom. The detail revealed something that I'll never be able to change: for all my middle-class pretensions, I will always be the child of immigrants.

There are other attractions to online housedating (the domain "housedating. com" appears to be available, by the way), not least discretion. One of the main reasons that singles resist the online thing is that they worry they will be spotted by friends, colleagues and enemies, who will then mock their desperation and loneliness. But photographs of attics, bathrooms and tasteful kitchens would ensure privacy.

Furthermore, if online housedating were conducted within the regulatory and legal framework of the traditional estate agency, you'd have much more confidence. You'd obviously get a few people claiming to live in Chatsworth when they have a bedsit in Bilston, but there could be compensation if things were misleading, and as solicitors would govern the set-ups, as they police house purchases, there would be legal recourse if/when the relationship went wrong.

Which brings us to the most appealing thing: housedating would restore the role that wealth plays in romance. There are some dating sites that tackle the issue of income directly: many Asian matrimonial sites ask you to state your profession and income, for instance, millionairecupid.com ("the world's best and largest dating site for successful singles, admirers and friends"), wealthychats.com  ("find and meet wealthy men and beautiful women"), seekwealthy.com ("we have thousands of successful and attractive members who recognise that life is there to be lived") are brazen about it.

But most sites ignore it, or tiptoe around the subject, pretending that it doesn't matter if someone works at Burger King or is a hedge-fund manager, when we all know that it really does. As the writer David Sedaris recently put it: "Money tells you 70 per cent of what you need to know about someone."

And as property tells you 70 per cent of what you need know about someone's money, online housedating would get you straight into the things that matter. Though I'm not sure that it's particularly encouraging that property prices have been falling at record levels and there appears to be no end to the downturn.

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If it is poorly designed with unappealing graphics or jagged fonts and misaligned sections, this indicates a lack of awareness of detail in the construction and layout of the site, and could mean that the site's management is in a corresponding state of chaos and disarray.

It's possible the site may be simply hacked, and your private info, including your photograph and contact info, are not secure. Our African American Dating service site was professionally made and you wont need to deal with these perils. try and have a glance at some of the sample profiles on the site before enrolling. Try and create if a site has a privacy link.

With our African American Dating service your information will never be sold or shared with any one and you won't be snowed under with spam emails and junk mail. Check if the dating site has a links page. Click some to ascertain which other sites they are related to, and be careful if they're linked to sex sites and spam sites.

To explain, it is easy and convenient to find single males and women on the Internet. From the comfort of your PC, you can view and interact with million of single males and around you. Single ladies on the lookout for single men online at these free dating agencies is common these days. There are thousands of web relations generated from African American Dating services.

Some African American Dating services claim that they' been in the business for years but are truly brand spanking new. A site with millions or just thousands of members will always have a large number of folks online at any given time.

 

OPW -- June 15 -- I asked Match.com for a statement regarding the McGinn suit where Match is accused of 'defrauding customers who paid for the dating service by failing to disclose that it lumps together current subscribers and canceled members and displays them as the same.' The CEO of Match, Greg Blatt, states...  "Match.com's continued success depends upon the success of our members in making online connections and turning them into meaningful relationships offline.  The allegation that we would deceive our subscribers by encouraging them to connect with inactive members therefore makes no sense and is contradicted by our 14-year record and the hundreds of thousands of members who find someone special on Match.com every year.  We understand that finding romance, offline or online, can at times be emotional and personal, and we wish Mr. McGinn well in his search.  But his lawsuit is without merit, and we will defend it vigorously."

The popular dating website Match.com is facing a class-action lawsuit brought by some of its members.

The members claim the service deceives them by allowing people to post profiles even though they're not paying members and can't read or respond to personal messages.

A customer from New York said that practice brought him "humiliation and disappointment," because he contacted members and assumed they weren't interested in him when they didn't respond.  In fact, the lawsuit suggests, they were never aware he contacted them in the first place.

Summer love can be fun but also stressful if you have a habit of sabatoging relationships. The pattern of crash and burn dating is hard to break because your subconscious mind tends to draw you to the same situations and people again and again. Here are some tips to make your summer romance last until the air grows chilly in the fall and hopefully transform into a long-lasting relationship.

 1. Do the opposite. If you are in a new relationship, do not automatically fall into the same patterns that did not work for you in the past. No matter how strong the pull, try to resist the common behaviors that drove a person away before and take a risk by acting against your fears. You may find that a new approach is both beneficial and freeing in keeping the other person interested.

2. Hold on Loosely. Remember that old song from the eighties? Think of holding a pen in your hand. If you grasp it too tightly your writing will look forced and too lose will make it sloppy. When you were just beginning to use the pencil, you had to find that sweet spot where you hand held it just right. Find that balance in your relationship. Do not force love or rebel against holding love at all. There is an energy when there is just a little bit of tension to keep both parties interested that keeps the fire burning between the two of you.

3. Keep your current life. Don't blow off your friends to completely dive into your new relationship. When someone new arrives, your social calendar does change. Your true friends can help you keep your feelings in check because they truly care about you. Your partner will find it attractive that you have another life besides what he or she offers you. Nothing puts more pressure on a relationship than the other person revolving their whole life around you when they do not even know you yet.

4. Take it slow. If you are meant to be together, there is a whole lifetime to spend together. So many relationships end too soon because one or both people try to squeeze the evolution of an entire relationship in one week. Don't jump in with both feet because you are only seeing the surface of the other person. Be patient and allow the romance to take its natural course.

5. Play Big. Sometimes when you really want a relationship and someone sails into your life, you immediately put them on a pedastal as the savior to your lonely existence. By doing this, you automatically put them above you and place yourself in a mental state of trying to earn their love. When you play small, the other person subconsciously feels your inferiority and then gets turned off. They won't be able to put their finger on it, but all they want to do is get away from you. If you come from a place of "I am the prize," the other person will feel like they are the lucky ones and treat you like a prince or princess. You will get the love you really deserve.

 

 

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I saw an interesting article on CNN today entitled "The downside of online dating".  In it, the writer discusses all the ways that online dating brings out the darker side of people.

For example:

• People will veto potential dates for very shallow reasons.  You wanted a guy who was over 6 feet and this one is perfect, but  5'10".  VETO!
• Some folks want instant gratification - WHAM! ROMANCE! - and if they don't get it, they disappear into the online mist, never to emerge again.
• Stalking an ex online is becoming more and more commonplace, including stalking their online dating profile.

What about you?  Does online dating bring out your nasty, mean, picky side?  Or are you willing to give people a chance online? As to me, I had a lucky dating experiences through the millionaire dating and wealthy men dating club wealthychats.com. He is a real millionaire! I can't never imagine that without online dating.

 

It's summer and for many lovely ladies, it is prime dating season! However, given the current economic recession, more people are staying in—and that has gotten the online dating industry booming! Read up on some reasons why more people may be turning to finding love online, as well as four free websites (i.e. no membership fee) to check out!

Why online dating is thriving

People have more time to look for love. Whether a person has been laid off or has cut down on post-work happy hours, more time is being spent at home nowadays, with extra available to actively look for "the One".It's less costly than going out. The dating scene can sometimes be a disappointing endeavour—and an expensive one to boot! The amount of money spent on drinks, food, and cab fare on a weekly basis can be overwhelming. With online dating, you can meet people for a relatively low cost (or free, as you'll see below) and make an informed decision before going out to invest your time—and money—on someone.There is a need to commiserate with someone. In these doom-and-gloom times, men and women are looking for someone to share and discuss hardships with. Conveying one's fears and concerns to a loving ear—or even having a distraction from work and money woes—may make life just a bit easier.People want to have someone to share expenses with. This is more of a long-term goal and maybe not what some people will outwardly admit to, but having someone to split the rent and bills with down the line sounds rather appealing—especially during these tough economic times.

FREE dating sites to check out

Plentyoffish.com This free dating site is a breath of fresh air from other sites that allow free membership but require payment to actually communicate with people. You can freely send messages to guys whose profiles you find interesting, shop around for guys in your area, attend social events run in your city by other members, and even block specific groups of users from messaging you. (Sorry, smokers living in the U.S. over the age of 40!)

WealthyChats.com This 100% free-to-join dating site launched by match.com has an interesting concept: wanting its users to connect with honest and respectful singles. The site relies on its community to share RealRatings of other users they've gone on dates with, to show whether they were genuine in their profiles. This will certainly filter out fraudsters and dishonest singles, keeping the dating environment safe and sincere.

Twitter The rising social networking site's intent was never to become an online dating destination, but it's pretty easy to find users in your area and begin tweeting with them. We have to admit, flirting in 140 characters or less has its quirky charms!

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I'm not sure how much Patti Stanger charges, but thanks to millionaire online dating sites like MillionaireCupid.com, her millionaire club may not be required much longer.

MillionaireCupid.com is an online personals dating site which dedicated to those men and women who are seeking a high caliber online dating experience. Just as the website mentioned: "If you are successful, you are more likely to meet your match and have a higher caliber dating experience here than other places! Every quality single is welcome here."  Members on this site should make at least $150,000 per year - they need to provide their bank documents and DL to become certified millionaires. This site guarantees them more emails than any other online dating site for millionaires, wealthy men, or sugar daddy out there. They also provide photo, age, occupation, education verifications to make the member info real and credible.

More than 80% Americans have tried to find their perfect lovers online. But many of them didn't find the right person online just because they are not on the right place at the right time. Personally, I met many different guys online who said they never contacted any women who specified how much a match should make in a year. In this case though, I'd assume these guys are well aware that their salary is the reason you're there in the first place.

The 2000's version of the millionaire match / wealthy men dating would typically spoil his young lover with gifts and often cash, as a 'reward' for her company or some other favors. These days the arrangement is more likely for a relationship, a solid bond between two willing partners. So, is singling out the rich millionaire guys weird to anyone else? What if it were an adult online dating site devoted to hot and beautiful single women? This 2009 millionaire and wealthy men dating can often develop into a powerful union of mind body and soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the dust.

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Single millionaires always grab attention. Yet now even millionaires are finding it necessary to set up dating profiles online! The internet seems to have a way of making everyone a little less mysterious, doesn't it?

 

Imagine how much attention a Millionaire gets when he walks into a singles bar? Let's be honest, he'd have a line of attractive women from one end of the bar to the next waiting to get a chance to speak with him.

 

It might not be fair, but millionaires simply draw respect without even saying a word. They pull up in their IPod-white stretch limousine. They walk out wearing their Gucci suite and their Armani glasses. They buy the best wine and wear the best cologne. They are the crème of the crop for many daters, and they are fought over tooth and nail.

 

"I see millionaires walk around these halls every day and I'd never expect to find one of them in an easily approachable situation. They just stay very private, you know. They know they've got what everyone wants...money, so it's funny that even they've succumbed to online dating"- says Beverly Daily, a cosmetics representative at the Cherry Creek Mall, Denver Colorado's most elite shopping center.

 

Yet not only are millionaires dating online, they have their OWN websites in which do it. Special millionaire dating websites match up wealthy individuals with young and attractive individuals. Though you may be surprised at how young some of the wealthy individuals are themselves, one of them is listed as only 22 and already retired after selling off stock in his internet startup last year.

 

There is definitely no shortage of gorgeous men and women who would be interested in dating a millionaire. Hoards of beautiful young hopefuls flock to these sites with profiles that show off their best attributes. Attractive upwardly mobile individuals now have a direct route to finding and dating millionaires.

 

To participate in millionaire dating, you may signup for a free account on any high end dating websites focused on Millionaire dating, or Sugar Daddy dating.

Ladies I know whats on all your minds "How do I find a rich man or a millionaire to marry?"

 

You're in luck I stumbled upon this site.

 

I gotta say, the wealthyMen dating website s an absurd concept to me. I signed up for a free account and started browsing for Rich Men. I found several millionaires who lived in my locale. Truth is, the site is legitimate. They are in fact real millionaires that live in and around my city.

 

But to think that these men would subject themselves to signing up for such a service, knowingly and fully aware that the women they are meeting are only into them for their wealth.

 

Now trust me, I would marry a millionaire or a rich man if I could, and I'm not even gay. But to have this website up and for it to be as successful as it is, just stuns me.

 

How to meet a millionare? How to meet a rich man? How to find single Rich men? How to find local single rich men? How to find rich singles? This is not the site for you……it should be called gold diggers.

The leading millionaire and celebrity dating site millionairecupid is offering Mark Ballas a life-time free membership after his split news was released. They are confident to find him a perferct love.

 

Dancing With the Stars pro dancer Mark Ballas and Cheetah Girl Sabrina Bryan have split. "We are just friends now," Mark Ballas told us Tuesday.

 

On Wednesday, Ballas posted on his myspace blog: "We are both really busy, and see each other when we can, are still close as ever and nothing has changed!"

 

Mark Ballas is one of the most reputable dancer, and should be treated like one. We would like to invite Ballas to join our millionaire and celebrity dating site where Charlie Sheen found his match last May", said Jerry, CEO of MillionaireCupid.com on Monday, "all of his personal information will be held in the strictest confidence if he wants to try our site, where he can meet someone who will love him for who, not what, he is.

 

Jerry also stated:"We are willing to provide him with a one-on-one premium service, and all of our services would be for him! We stand by our site, and we are willing to offer him a life-time free gold membership until he makes his perfect match on our site!"